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Homeschooling Goes Mainstream and Here's Why

Studies show homeschooled kids, on average, are better educated than public school children.

 

A few months ago at 11 a.m. on a Tuesday, I saw a mom showing a very well-behaved 8-year-old boy flashcards with Chinese characters on them in Panera Bread. Homeschool alert!

I figured this woman was either a very conservative Christian or a crunchy granola type. Being annoyingly curious and inappropriate, as is my M.O., I struck up a conversation with her. She wasn’t either of those narrow-minded stereotypes.

She was very nice and talked to me for a while about her experiences homeschooling her kids. I learned that homeschooling is way more organized than I thought and very in vogue at the moment. 

In 1980, home schooling was illegal in 30 states. Now, it is legal in all 50 states with about 1.5- million to 2 million children being homeschooled in the U.S., roughly 3 percent of school-age children nationwide, according to a study by the National Center for Education Statistics.

In the same study, it was found that between 1999 and 2007, the number of homeschooled children rose 77 percent. The actual number may be even higher because not all parents who homeschool report information to the government. However, the general consensus is that the stigma associated with homeschooling is gone as it becomes more and more mainstream.

As for why more parents are homeschooling, it is not surprising that the highest percentage listed religious and moral instruction (36 percent), the next most popular reason being concerns about the school environment (21 percent), followed by dissatisfaction with academic instruction (17 percent). 

There is also a trend toward co-op homeschooling where small groups of parents take turns teaching the children and/or hiring tutors to assume some of the responsibility. The image of homeschooled children spending their days sitting at the kitchen table are long gone. Today’s homeschooled are out and about with many museums offering programs to homeschoolers as well as other hands-on activities, such as nature centers. There are endless websites dedicated to non-traditional learning opportunities in addition to websites offering support and resources for homeschooling families

I can teach a classroom of 28 fifth graders who, between them, cover every learning and behavioral issue under the sun (note to my former colleagues: I said I could, I didn’t say I was good at it), but the thought of teaching my own boys scares me to death. 

I always believed it was better to leave their academics in the capable hands of those who did not give birth to them, thus eliminating the emotional turmoil involved in getting them to open a book. But statistics indicate that this might not have been the wisest choice. According to the Homeschool Progress Report 2009: Academic Achievement and Demographics, homeschoolers, on average, scored 37 percentile points above their public school counterparts on standardized achievement tests.

Almost every study touches on a few other facts. It seems homeschooled kids are far from isolated from peers, do well in social situations, and are more likely to be involved in their community. The education level of the parents had little effect on the success of their children, as did state regulations, gender of the student or how much parents spent on education.

Speaking of spending per student, in public school about $10,000 is spent on each student, each year, as opposed the $500 spent on the average homeschooled student. This number sounds a little fishy since the last time I took my kids to the aquarium I spent $74 on three tickets. Bad puns aside, when I began this article I was dead set against homeschooling, as are many certified teachers. But, after doing research, I’m not so sure. Maybe the public school system could learn something from the homeschool community.

 

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Jennifer Michealsen-Stone July 24, 2012 at 02:10 am
That is how I read the article, too. As a Crunchy Conservative Christian homeschooler living a unconventional life, I enjoyed reading about the author's 'aha' moment.
Jennifer Michealsen-Stone July 24, 2012 at 02:12 am
Thank you!
Lone Starr July 24, 2012 at 02:19 am
@Kathy and Krissi - many parents/students have had fine, successful experiences with public schooling. Some have not, just as some homeschoolers have been unsucessful. Public schooling will obviously continue to be the primary option for most. But for so many years (to this day), homeschoolers have suffered from unfounded criticism. And it doesn't help that the premier Teacher's Union, the NEA, still takes an anti-homeschooling stance (2011 resolutions):
"B-82. Home Schooling. The National Education Association believes that home schooling programs based on parental choice cannot provide the student with a comprehensive education experience. When home schooling occurs, students enrolled must meet all state curricular requirements, including the taking and passing of assessments to ensure adequate academic progress. Home schooling should be limited to the children of the immediate family, with all expenses being borne by the parents/guardians. Instruction should be by persons who are licensed by the appropriate state education licensure agency, and a curriculum approved by the state department of education should be used. The Association also believes that home-schooled students should not participate in any extracurricular activities in the public schools." When the teacher's union adopts a more conciliatory attitude, perhaps homeschoolers will feel less threatened and be less defensive.
Jennifer Michealsen-Stone July 24, 2012 at 02:24 am
It was a great article. No apologies needed. I appreciate you asking thoughtful questions of the homeschooling mom you encountered at Panera Bread. If more people did that, maybe their opinion of homeschooling would change. Thank you from a proud Crunchy Conservative Christian homeschooler ;)
Jennifer Michealsen-Stone July 24, 2012 at 02:27 am
Great post!
Jennifer Michealsen-Stone July 24, 2012 at 02:46 am
Thank you for your comment. Congrats on raising four children to adulthood. Enjoy the fruits of your labors!
Krissi July 24, 2012 at 02:47 am
FYI - most public school teachers do not belong to or support the NEA and I agree that their arrogant stance is borne out of self-preservation. Among my closest friends, 1/3 homeschool, 1/3 private or charter & 1/3 utilize the public schools. All have great kids because all have loving parents who are committed to their upbringing.
Terri Brown July 24, 2012 at 02:47 am
I worked and homeschool so does my friend and shes an RN, Depends on the age of the kids and the kind of support you have. This year I worked from home and homeschool a friend's daughter while she worksed.
Lone Starr July 24, 2012 at 02:51 am
Thumbs up to that!
Terri Brown July 24, 2012 at 03:08 am
I first heard about homschooling in 1992. My son was attending a small Christian private school where he got good grades right up until I got him home. Once school was over he suddenly couldnt do any of the things he had recieved the good grades for. When I spoke to his teacher she told me she believed my son had a learning disability. A whole year in school and no one mentioned the possibility to me until after the school year was over, I met with the principle and he told me not to worry "they all catch up by second grade." My son never went back to school. He has severe learning disabilities and at 26 functions at about a srxth grade level. He would not have caught up in second grade. I am so thankful someone told me about homeschooling where he was able to learn at his own pace and not be pushed along for the tuition money.
Cari July 24, 2012 at 03:46 am
I know, right? Yet the indignant rants continue. Learn to read & think critically before you go off on a tangent of righteous indignation please?
Jessica July 24, 2012 at 01:36 pm
I thought the article was well written and thought out. The author was mentioning common stereotypes for homeschooling. Whether you want to accept it or not, there are stereotypes in almost everything whether it is sports, men/women, or politics. I do not feel that the author was condemning anyone. As a matter of fact, I got the impression that she was applauding those who choose to make this decision. As a homeschooler myself, I never got the impression that she was calling me narrow minded. Unfortunately, I have seen that there are many homeschoolers who get their feathers ruffled easily...perhaps from necessary defense in the past. This is a different era...relax and enjoy being a parent!
Mary Austin July 24, 2012 at 03:51 pm
You are so right about the cost for public school children. Sadly, it now does not even cover a text book for each student to take home to study in. In many schools text books are shared with other students and can not leave the school premises.
Cara Kay July 24, 2012 at 04:38 pm
Well said! I went to public school K-12 and am grateful for what I received. My husband and I feel very strongly about homeschooling our children, but it doesn't help anything when homeschoolers make naive blanket statements about public schooling, just like homeschoolers don't appreciate ignorant blanket statements being made about us, either. It's one thing to have thoroughly researched, objective thoughts about pros and cons and to feel strongly about our own preference, it is quite another to trash an entire system like it can't possibly benefit children.
Jill Meredith July 24, 2012 at 05:29 pm
I would just like to say that I've been homeschooling since 2000 and love it. As far as all the "ranting" goes, get over it people!
Anyway, just as an FYI, cost of homeschooling varies immensly from family to family. We have never spent more than $1200 for the year for 4 children, that's total, not individually. Most years I've spent closer to $800 total. I could easily spend $1000 per child, if I had endless funds and wanted to spend it that way.
Eva Biers July 24, 2012 at 09:15 pm
thanks so much for clarifying that. i took it the other way. i think i still would have been confused even if i had read more carefully.
hs mom July 25, 2012 at 03:54 am
i totally agree with you, like i always (home) taught my kids--you can always get more money, but you can't get more time. You made the wiser choice.
satirah July 25, 2012 at 02:24 pm
I just love this article. I am a not so typical homeschool mom. I am both crunchy and a christian, so I have a hard time finding my fit with co-ops and homeschoool groups. It was the best decision I have ever made. I started homeschooling my kids last year, when they entered the 6th and 7th grade. (This is the age when some homeschool kids start going to public schools.) I started homeschooling my kids because the kids at our public school are mean, ill behaved, bullies and I could see one child being sucked into this behavior, while the other was becoming the victim. For all of those parents who think that they can not teach there kids, let me tell you how wrong you are. Did you teach your kids their first words and to walk? Did you teach your kids to say please and thank you, to say bed time prayer or to sing their ABCs? If you taught your children these things, you can teach them anything. Every thing they need to know, you have already laid a foundation for. You potty trained them for crying out loud!!! You can totally do this :)
Jamie Chalut July 25, 2012 at 05:29 pm
Amy P., I take exception to your comment. Our family of homeschooling atheists, as well as the community of secular homeschoolers we associate with, places a high value on curiousity, scientific inquiry, critical thinking skills, creativity, and problem-solving. Though I respect your decision to include your religious beliefs in your homeschooling, "God" needn't be part of the equation in order to achieve academic excellence. Thousands of homeschooled, private schooled, and public schooled kids have proven this to be true. The most important factor underlying academic success is parental involvement and encouragement.
Sharon Duncan July 26, 2012 at 01:46 pm
"She wasn’t either of those narrow-minded stereotypes."
Ummm... not one of those "ranting" here, but just wanted to point out that the adjective 'narrow-minded' came directly before the noun 'stereotypes', hence is is modifying that noun. Maybe YOU aren't reading and thinking.
Sharon Duncan July 26, 2012 at 01:51 pm
" I learned that homeschooling is way more organized than I thought and very in vogue at the moment. "
If people would take the time to LEARN about homeschooling before they form their opinion and condemn it, they would find that many of their arguments against it fall flat. Many people are ignorant about what homeschoolers do, and most teachers are against it because they feel threatened.
Sue Sobczak July 28, 2012 at 04:05 pm
Loved your thoughts. I thought the same way...now I'm one of those Christian homeschool moms whose been homeschooling for 12 years. There is a ton of support out there should you decided to join us!
http://journeying-sue.blogspot.com/p/this-years-classes.html http://journeying-sue.blogspot.com/p/about-me.html Sue
Betty Landers July 29, 2012 at 05:40 pm
To the people who reacted defensively to the "narrow minded" comment: The author was referring to the STEREOTYPES as being narrow minded... NOT the Christians or the granola crunchies.... That is a matter of simple SYNTAX. The misunderstanding was expressed by, interestingly, primarily the homeschoolers.... which makes me wonder: If you cannot get the meaning of such a simple sentence construction, how/what are you teaching your kids about reading comprehension, grammar and other aspects of writing? But, more importantly, what is up with the defensive gut reaction? If I feel that whatever I am doing is just fine.... I do not see the need to defend myself.
Lone Starr July 29, 2012 at 06:04 pm
Hmm, perhaps if you had bothered to read the comments above, you would have noted that the author herself admitted (on 7/23) that the sentence at issue was poorly constructed. It is prone to misinterpretation, since "narrow-minded" could either refer to those who fit the stereotypes or to those who pigeonhole others into those stereotypes. Given that homeschoolers have suffered for decades from the ignorant criticisms of the latter, it is not surprising that some took offense.
I find it interesting that you apparently did not recognize this potential for misinterpretation; if you are home-schooling your children, you might want to incorporate this lesson. If not, and your kids are in the public school system, I'll just note that my formerly homeschooled daughter, currently a university senior, is often remarking on the grammar failures of her peers.
Susan Schaefer August 3, 2012 at 07:57 pm
Thank you all for your thoughtful and supportive comments. I invite you to follow me on Twitter @sueschaefer1 and visit my wesite at www.academiccoachingct.com.
Keep in touch! Sue
David Kennedy Bird August 7, 2012 at 08:48 pm
This comment is ugly and unfair, and, fortunately, not representative of the attitudes of most home schooling families. You obviously weren't paying attention to what the author was, in fact, saying.
Mardy Freeman September 30, 2012 at 06:38 pm
Excellent article. We are just beginning our 26th year of homeschooling 7 children, and over the years have seen many families homeschool for many different reasons, including the need to accomodate child actors and young Olympic trainers. We've come to the conclusion that homeschooling works anywhere there is love and respect in the home. One more site you'd probably enjoy is www.NHERI.org. Dr. Brian Ray dedicates many hours to documenting the successes of homeschoolers nationwide. Thank you again! Bill and Mardy Freeman
CT Youth Mentoring & Coaching October 10, 2012 at 02:16 pm
Great article! I really enjoyed reading your comments and how open minded you are.
CT Youth Mentoring & Coaching October 10, 2012 at 08:25 pm
http://www.sudval.org/ here is a website about a school on the cutting edge. Worth checking out.

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